Posted September 24th, 2019 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Dr. Jim discusses some possibilities for how we approach the second half of life...…
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Posted February 25th, 2019 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
The Principle of Attraction, by Jim Nolan
I want to talk about what I have come to call the Principle of Attraction. (many talk about the “Law of Attraction”, but I prefer the term “Principle”, for reasons that may become clearer as you follow my blogs…)
This Principle…
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Posted January 22nd, 2019 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
One of My Greatest Learnings Over 65 Years.
(I have a lot of colleagues and acquaintances who cannot get this one, and I wish they would, but there is some built-in narrative that will not allow it. It saddens me about 93% of the time and is annoying as hell the…
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Posted September 3rd, 2017 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, Musings on Therapy, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Men in their 50's and 60's often are very stuck, their experiences misunderstood, even by themselves...…
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Posted July 1st, 2017 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Musings on Therapy, Musings on My Life Coaching.
I am getting a lot of calls these days for my private practice. Thankfully, my clients almost always tell me why they called me (rather than, or in addition to, the thirty-seven thousand OTHER therapists in Honolulu or Santa Fe…) It’s almost always about two things. OK---let's call it four.
My profile…
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Posted December 7th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
Day In The Life on the Job
“I don’t want to work, but I want all the things.”
“I have all the things, but I have to keep working to afford them, and I don’t want to work, I really want freedom, but I don’t want to lose all the things.”
“The…
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Posted November 18th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Jim's Book....
I do not know how the world actually works.
I am eating toast with mango jam. The guy next door has a big-ass mango tree which, when it fruits, drops mangoes by the score.
However, the jam I am eating, it seems, is not from next door, or even Waimanalo or a neighboring…
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Posted August 22nd, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
Wherein I offer a sophisticated and indisputable evidence for a Higher Consciousness. in the Universe. …
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Posted June 8th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Musings on Therapy, Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
There are many right answers to most questions in this life...…
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Posted June 5th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Jim's Book..., Jim's Views On The Universe.
Living in Cleveland in the late 60's...…
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Posted June 2nd, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Book..., Featured.
Coming of age in the early 70's...…
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Posted June 1st, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Jim's Book....
The Cuyahoga River Was Catching Fire for the 13th Time
The Cuyahoga River was catching fire for the 13th time. It was Cleveland, late 1960’s. This would be the most arresting fire in the Crooked River’s flamed career. Downstream a mile or so, Lake Erie was drowning in raw sewer waste, unregulated pesticides and…
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Posted May 8th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Anybody can proclaim themselves a "Life Coach." Think about that...…
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Posted February 25th, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
At its worst, “Evidence-Based Practice” invites us to abandon our own base of experience, suspend our reliance on intuition, and place the locus of authority in the hands of academicians who in practice subscribe to a scarily narrow ”way of knowing.” Additionally, we are often encouraged (bullied, in the Academy) to discount or ignore knowledge…
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Posted January 21st, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
High Up Diamond Head Road 1.21.2024
Sitting on an irregular volcanic stone wall high up Diamond Head Road, scores of surfers drifting down below.
It’s Hawai’i, man.
I’m just sitting here, being here, flirting uncharacteristically with the possibility that this could be something approaching “enough.”
There is an incessant…
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Posted January 1st, 2024 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
Psychologists Are Not Allowed to Believe in Ghosts
Or if they are, they generally keep it to themselves. “Evidence-based blah blah” and all that. The so-called “Science of Psychology.” Yeah, whatever.
A lot of clients, over the years, have brought in spooks, ghosts, spirits, ancestors, paranormal experiences, books flying off shelves,…
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Posted November 25th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Musings on My Life Coaching, Featured.
Please STOP with the "People who waste their money getting worthless degrees are stupid" narrative. …
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Posted October 11th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
An Ethics Board saying some behavior or decision is “unethical” does not necessarily mean that that behavior or decision is “unethical.” It just means that, at this point in time, the few who happen to be on that board are deciding to label it as such.
DSM saying that Such and Such…
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Posted October 8th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Some insights into my Life Coaching practice...…
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Posted August 13th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
How pretty Kauai seems depends on where you came in from. …
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Posted July 24th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Musings on Therapy, Jim's Views On The Universe.
I notice that "Therapies" have steadily moved (or so it seems?) toward "techniques", and "Alphabet Therapies."
Also, the language of the field (if Facebook Groups are any kind of indication) grows more politicized, and in many ways more polarized. I sometimes think I feel the Zeitgeist moving AWAY from what I would…
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Posted July 10th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, Musings on Therapy.
Not buying that "Depression" is a "thing"...…
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Posted June 23rd, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Musings on Therapy.
Calling it Ethics doesn't make it Ethics. …
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Posted May 17th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Questioning the use of the word "Healing" to describe experiences or interactions that were really positive. …
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Posted May 7th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
We all have cool, or interesting, or important stuff going on in our lives, at all times...I need to not forget that...…
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Posted May 7th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Musings on Therapy.
People want to feel seen, feel heard...…
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Posted April 14th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Musings on Therapy.
Why Clients That Fire Me Fire Me
I am a very big believer in taking responsibility for our own experiences in life.
Were we impacted by the past? Sure.
Have we had experiences that sucked? You bet. Plenty.
I find there is a subset of…
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Posted March 15th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
A Rant On Apologies
If you have done something that was not a good look, or was inappropriate, or hurtful, or snarky, or unkind, or lacked in empathy, or got a laugh at somebody else’s expense, or was a misguided grenade that was meant for somebody else, I have an idea:
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Posted February 15th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
You know what I am not wild about?
I’ll tell you what I’m not wild about, now that you’ve asked.
When you go on a trip, and you tell people you went on that trip, and visited some place, and they pull out that one particular thing--not infrequently a somewhat obscure…
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Posted January 29th, 2023 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Tips/Observations/Opinions/Experiences on Adding Coaching to Your Business
Remember, you are not restricted as to where you can practice as a Coach
I earned several certificates in Coaching, none of which were really worth a d***, to be honest. I would still get one, just to have one, and possibly even…
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Posted August 4th, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
Coaching Toward a Higher Vision
People who are reasonably evolved, resourceful, optimistic, and have a bit of the Visionary and the Maverick in them, usually find themselves creating rich and expansive options in life. They encounter decisions, opportunities, aspirations, intuitions, sometimes a great notion, visitations from guides of all sorts, spiritual inklings and awakenings.…
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Posted August 3rd, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Musings on My Life Coaching.
Credentials & Experiences (OK, this is kind of Blah, Blah Blah, but...)
Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from THE Ohio State University (and almost 40 years in the biz)
Have been Licensed in a million states, as a Psychologist, and/or Professional Counselor, and/or Addictions Guy
Tow motor operator extraordinaire, if I do…
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Posted June 1st, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Shine…
A great friend of mine, Dr. Michael Johll, once told a disgruntled grad school graduate, who vehemently declared she would not work for $15 an hour (but remained unemployed): “Next time, take that $15 an hour job, and shine, and it won’t be $15 an hour for long…”
I always…
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Posted May 30th, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Mongooses in Hawai’i
They brought mongooses to Hawai’i to keep rats the hell out of the sugar cane fields. Seventy-two of them from Jamaica in 1883.
Turns out mongooses sleep when rats are eating Frosted Flakes, and are awake and hunting when rats are fat and safely sleeping…
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Posted May 26th, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
My practics is focused on how to make our lives all that they can be. Boom. …
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Posted May 23rd, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
Positive Psychology is the applied science of identifying and using human resources, resourcefulness, and potentials to create the most meaningful, intentional, satisfying and/or joyful life experiences possible. It’s a great field. I love it.
For purposes of my own private Psychologist/Coaching practice, it is important to note that the ultimate goals of Positive Psychology…
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Posted February 27th, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Positive thinking and an Internal Locus of Control are hugely beneficial assets for a satisfying life. …
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Posted February 24th, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Featured.
We tell ourselves stories, and then convince ourselves they are The Truth. …
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Posted January 23rd, 2022 by James Nolan & filed under Musings on My Life Coaching, Featured.
Although I am looking to semi-retire, I always look forward to working with clients who are a great fit...…
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Posted November 16th, 2021 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
James Mick shares the answer to almost every question...…
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Posted September 9th, 2021 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
I remember smoking cigarettes in college classes (all English majors and professors did), on airplanes, in theatres, even in the Vic Tanny Gym locker room.
I remember cars without seatbelts.
I remember loved ones walking you right to your airplane gate.
These times are gone and never coming back. I…
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Posted August 23rd, 2021 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
I am a Psychologist that uses Positive Psychology, Life Coaching strategies and Law of Attraction principles in my work with clients. That has made me a bit of an outlier in my field, but in Santa Fe my practice was overflowing with people who were looking for precisely such a maverick approach, and I am completely…
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Posted August 23rd, 2021 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, Musings on My Life Coaching.
My Mission
To offer affordable Life Coaching to people who are a good fit with me, so that they can live the life they envision, and I have more time to play guitar and watch sunsets at Waikiki with an income stream in semi-retirement.
Win-Win.
Coaching Costs Too Much
Many people…
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Posted June 13th, 2021 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe.
My Truth
If “The Truth” or “The Way” or the correct and accurate world view were clear and knowable (I don’t believe they even exist), we would not have so many isms and paths, politics and churches, conspiracy theories and secret societies. One person’s spiritual or “social justice” perspective or understanding of how we…
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Posted June 10th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, How to Use the Law/Principle of Attraction.
Dr. J offers part 2 of how to make stuff happen in your life...…
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Posted June 10th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under How to Use the Law/Principle of Attraction, Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Dr. J discusses centuries old principles related to manifesting what you want in life...…
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Posted June 7th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Don't let anyone else tell you how YOU should show up during these times...…
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Posted April 15th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured.
Hippocratic Oath
Remember when Hippocrates said “Above all, do no harm”?
Yeah, except that is not what the Hippocratic Oath says.
Isn’t that one hell of a low bar, anyway? Don’t hurt or kill anybody?
If I thought that was my over-arching, primary goal when I got up in the morning,…
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Posted March 8th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under Jim's Views On The Universe, Featured, How to Use the Law/Principle of Attraction.
People vacation in Paris, not the garbage dump...Know why? …
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Posted March 8th, 2020 by James Nolan & filed under Featured, How to Use the Law/Principle of Attraction.
This piece is meant to offer practical advice on the Law of Attraction...…
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